EPHESIANS 5 — WALKING IN LOVE, LIGHT, AND THE SPIRIT; MARRIAGE AS A PICTURE OF CHRIST AND THE CHURCH
What does it mean to be "filled with the Spirit"? Study Ephesians 5 with context, apologetic analysis, and cross-references.
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Dr. Lucas D. Shallua Commentary · EPHESIANS 5 — WALKING IN LOVE, LIGHT, AND THE SPIRIT; MARRIAGE AS A PICTURE OF CHRIST AND THE CHURCH
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The precise difficulties
What does it mean to be "filled with the Spirit"?
Does Paul teach that wives must obey their husbands in everything?
Is "head" a term of authority or of source?
Does verse 5 say that a believer who sins sexually will lose his salvation?
Is Paul commanding us to be thankful for everything, including evil?
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Verse and question study
What does it mean to be "filled with the Spirit"?
It means to be continually yielded to the Spirit's control and empowerment, so that His character and gifts are evident in daily life and worship. It is not a one-time event that is complete, but an ongoing relationship that believers are to seek repeatedly. The Pentecostal and Charismatic tradition emphasizes that this includes the supernatural gifts and the experience of the Spirit's power, while all evangelical traditions agree that it should produce Christlike character.
Does Paul teach that wives must obey their husbands in everything?
Paul asks wives to submit to their husbands within the framework of mutual submission to one another out of reverence for Christ. The word "submit" differs from the word for children's obedience to parents in 6:1. The passage cannot be used to demand that a wife join in sin or to excuse abuse, and a wife's submission to her husband is never greater than her submission to Christ. Christians differ on how the passage applies to decision-making, and the text should be read in context, with Paul's heaviest emphasis falling on the husband's sacrificial love.
Is "head" a term of authority or of source?
Scholars debate this. Many see "head" as a term of leadership and authority, as in Ephesians 1:22, where Christ is head over all things. Others emphasize the sense of source or origin, as in 4:15–16. In this passage, the definition of Christ's headship is given by His saving and self-giving actions, and any understanding of the husband's role must be shaped by that example.
Does verse 5 say that a believer who sins sexually will lose his salvation?
It says that people who are characterized by such sins, with no repentance or change, give evidence that they do not belong to the kingdom. Believers can fall into sin and be forgiven through confession and repentance. The warning is meant to keep believers from drifting into a way of life that contradicts their identity in Christ.
Is Paul commanding us to be thankful for everything, including evil?
No. "For everything" means that believers can give thanks in all circumstances, trusting that God is at work (compare Romans 8:28; 1 Thessalonians 5:18). It does not mean that evil things are good.
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Historical and literary context
Chapter 5 continues the moral instruction of chapter 4, and the first section is closely linked to the last verses of chapter 4, which ended with forgiving as God in Christ forgave. Now Paul commands imitation of God Himself. The chapter has three major parts: the call to love and purity (verses 1–14), the call to wisdom and Spirit-filled worship (verses 15–21), and the household instructions on marriage (verses 22–33), which continue into chapter 6 with parents and children and masters and slaves. The household code was a recognized literary form in the Greco-Roman world, which typically addressed husbands, fathers, and masters about how to keep control of their households. Paul's version is radically different. He addresses the subordinate members, wives, children, and slaves, as moral agents, and he directs the heaviest demands at the husbands, fathers, and masters. And he roots everything in the gospel, so that marriage becomes a picture of Christ's love for the church. The passage has been controversial in modern debates about gender roles, and it needs to be read with care and humility.
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Apologetic note
Verse 14 appears to quote a fragment of an early Christian hymn, and verse 19 describes the singing of psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs. Together they show that Christian worship was marked by music from the earliest times, and that Christ was a focus of that worship. The independent testimony of Pliny the Younger, who wrote to the emperor Trajan around AD 112 that Christians gathered before dawn to sing a hymn to Christ as to a god, agrees with this picture. Hymns found in the New Testament, such as Philippians 2:6–11, Colossians 1:15–20, and possibly this one, reflect very early devotion to Jesus as divine. The moral teaching of the chapter also illustrates the distinctive character of the early Christian movement. In the Greco-Roman world, household codes normally instructed the head of the household on how to maintain control. Paul addresses wives, children, and slaves directly as responsible agents, and he commands husbands to love sacrificially. This vision of marriage, grounded in the self-giving of Christ, was a historical novelty, and it had a lasting effect on the dignity of women in the ancient world.
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Chapter cross-references
Genesis 2:18–25 The creation of marriage; the two become one flesh